Your stenopad is on drugs and never gets even close to the truth.
How provincial was your upbringing and experiences that you
can’t really draw a characterization of a real man with depth.
Your goal is to tear down another’s life to neutralize your own.
I will give you a hint here. No fingers were pointed or escape into
nihilism but a human process of acceptance and grieving turned
into a family that isn’t one his mother promised him. A creation
of his own fears and misunderstanding and a drama of true love.